
Roundabouts are becoming more and more common. It’s quite a driving experience. When the driver approaches the roundabout intersection, they yield to cross traffic and enter the circle. The driver then decides where to exit the circle to continue their journey. It seems strange, especially for first-timers. As a life coach, I can’t help but to think of a roundabout and make some connections to what is possible in a coaching conversation. Clients can approach a coaching conversation like approaching a roundabout:
1.SLOW DOWN - When coming across something unfamiliar or uncertain, it’s best to slow down. Life moves so fast with all the pressures and decisions of daily life. Working with a coach helps slow down the pace when we encounter something new, whether it be a new problem or a new opportunity.
2.LOOK AT THE SIGNS - Most of these intersections are clearly marked, if you just follow the signs. Signs point you in the direction of your destination. A coach can help you see the signs that are around you, even if they’re hidden or undiscovered. When facing uncertainty, road signs of vision, purpose, and values can point us in the right direction.
3.CONSIDER YOUR OPTIONS - In a roundabout, if you miss your turn, you can always drive around the circle again. Now too much of that will make your head spin and leave you making no progress in your journey. Coaching is a partnership. Clients drive, coaches ask questions that expose blindspots and create awareness. The coaching process allows the space and time to review possible options for relevant action, but the conversation doesn’t go on forever.
4.TIME TO ACT - At this point, it’s time to make a choice. Many leaders find themselves stuck in a roundabout without the clarity or courage to make a choice. A coaching conversation helps leaders develop the confidence to take action. Leaders can change the pace to gain the experience and perspective needed to keep moving forward. That is what coaching is all about. I’d love to explore your next roundabout decision with you. Let’s connect over a Curiosity Call at https://calendly.com/reachcoacheric
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